Basic Nature of a human being doesn't change*! True! So don't try to change it.
Only thing you can do for a human being is to help him realize what he wants out of himself!! And this we always do either intentionally or unintentionally!!
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Nature, of a human being. how do you define it?
Altruistic,Selfish,Money minded,Competitive,Hard worker,Cribber( I mean who cribs alot :p), Happy-go-lucky,I-give-a-damn,Fast learner etc..
Nature,of a human being. what develops it?
The circumstances faced by the person, in his formative years and right now.
(As humans we have tendency to learn (all the time) that's why we have respective Natures,only problem is most of us don't know that we can learn, and what we are learning.)
Can you change the basic nature of a human being!
Circumstances define the nature and circumstances can force human beings to use that very basic nature to scale greater heights( definition of greater heights is a personal thing, as in it varies from person to person.What is great for me can be totally trivial for you) in life.
e.g A guy,due to troublesome childhood , is hot headed by his very nature. You cant change his nature from being hot-headed to cool-headed guy but what you can do is force him to control his anger and put it to some constructive use.
Then what stops people to scale greater heights?
Greater heights is what gives you satisfaction and keeps you going. What stops people is The Fear, it comes in many varieties.
So I say --
Only thing you can do for a human being is to help him realize what he wants out of himself!! And this we always do either intentionally or unintentionally!!
* Most important assumption : Nature we develop has a specific use in our respective lives. We should know when to cash the cheque. How to cash is not important as in thats in your nature.
3 comments:
the "he" "himself" is so predominant and prominent! :)
To mature is to change and vice versa! :P Change is constant and natural! :P
kal na maine socha! ki ye jo nature hai.. it is probably inbuilt in our genetic build up and chromosomal make up.. basically i m just thinking ways of controlling anger and impulsive nature. anyway.. jab soch loongi tab bolungi.. abhi bhi soch hi rahi hoon! :(
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