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Scenario: My mom walking past a line of beggars, sitting on roadside. She,gripped by sudden emotion of "Dan" or you can call it "Daya Bhav" or just feeling of "pity" or feeling of "self - selfishness" (read it as self minus selfishness), decides to give five rupees to a beggar. She gives Rs 5 to a beggar.

Aftermath: Swarm of beggars ( minus the one who just got Rs 5) surround my mother. She starts to run saying "don't touch me" followed by "hato hato" followed by "don't touch me". But the beggars knew(by experience) that they can bank on the emotion of "Dan" or the "Daya Bhav" or the feeling of "pity". Finally after good 5 mins Mom yielded to persistence of the beggars.

She gave another 10 rupees ( I think so ! I don't remember but yeah it was bigger denomination then before) but this time with the feeling of maybe " Leave-me-alone" or "go-go-take-it-but-don't come-back" or thinking that solution to the problem was to give last time and escape.


Take away -

Taker* - Gets his Money.

Giver* - Looses the basic emotion by which he/she started off!

So, If you can't give all the time or to all then always be careful to whom and in front of whom you give.

Takers always want something and other Takers will always follow the suit .Takers always gain in the end.

Givers always loose the emotion of "Dan" or the "Daya Bhav" or the feeling of "pity" in the end.


* for all people jo bhawanao ko nahin samjhte hai --
Taker here means one who receives anything bole tho beggar in case example shared above.
Giver means one who gives bole tho my Mom in case example shared above.